Debate around end-of-life care is becoming more prominent, while medical and social care services are being stretched. With death doulas able to ‘bridge the gap’ between the two, could spas also step up to host services in this space? Julie Cramer reports
Exploring the ‘interconnectedness of life’ at The Dreaming / photo: Elliot Cooper | @cooperexplores
With many countries facing ageing populations, the conversations around end-of-life care are inevitably increasing.
Against this backdrop, the role of the death doula (also known as an end-of-life doula) has gradually become more prominent over the last decade. Just as a birth doula is there to assist mothers to welcome new life, the death doula can be a non-medical advisor, assistant and confidante to those facing a terminal illness, to their caregivers, or elderly people approaching the end.
While death doulas have been around for centuries in different forms in global communities, their modern-day equivalents are now highly trained professionals offering valuable services. Their role is to facilitate a holistic approach to dying, addressing the emotional, spiritual, psychological and often the logistical needs of individuals and their loved ones.
Nurturing environments So this raises the question, could death doula services be offered at spa and wellness centres, whose raison d’être is to nurture and support the wellbeing of guests?
Dr Emma Clare, head of End of Life Doula UK – an association with 360 members – thinks so. “As end-of-life doulas, we’re all about holistic support, wellbeing and quality-of-life at the end of life, so we can absolutely see how this could align with a wellness setting,” she says.
“One of the things which makes our role different is the flexibility of the support we offer. If someone felt most comfortable accessing doula support via such [spa] facilities, we’d be very open to the idea. It would also provide a place for people to discover end-of-life doula support as an option for them at a time when they’re focused on their own wellbeing and self-care, which would be very fitting.”
Rachael Carter, an end-of-life Soul Doula trainer, wellbeing and spiritual life coach, is already working with wellness facilities such as Charlotte Church’s The Dreaming in the UK. She says: “We turn to spas for restoration, healing and deep relaxation, but true wellbeing includes fully living before we die – and how we prepare for and process death is a big part of that.
“Spas could become spaces where guests not only nourish their bodies but also explore life’s most profound transitions in a compassionate, supportive way.
“There’s a growing movement to bring death back into open conversation – shifting it from something hidden to something honoured and embraced. Death doulas are becoming more visible as people seek a more holistic, bespoke person-centred approach to dying.”
According to Carter, spas might embrace services by death and grief experts in a number of ways:
▪︎ Private or group sessions where guests can reflect on life, legacy and end-of-life wishes
▪︎ Workshops exploring what truly matters in life
▪︎ Tailored spa experiences for those at the end of life, offering soothing touch, breathwork or sensory therapies
▪︎ Retreats to offer people at the end of life or those grieving a space to reflect and be nurtured
Training standards Fortunately for spas looking to employ fully-trained and vetted doulas, standards in the sector appear to be both high and comprehensive.
Clare says End of Life Doula UK launched in 2018 as a community to support and continue the learning of professionals already certified by Living Well Dying Well, an organisation offering robust training.
“It can take several years to train as an end-of-life doula,” she explains. “It’s also not a role that you can learn entirely from taught material – we learn by doing and by being with those we support. This means that many of our members are ‘end-of-life doulas in training’ who are undertaking their diploma training while assisting people in their communities, with the support of our mentoring system.
“Spas can come to us as we ensure that all of our practising members are appropriately trained, insured, DBS checked and mentored.”
Carter adds that for operators considering offering these services, clear communication – ensuring guests understand programmes are about support, not therapy or medical advice – is key, along with “thoughtful integration, so that doula services blend in seamlessly without overwhelming guests”.
Evolving role As understanding of death doulas expands – as it appears to be doing – it could increasingly seem like a natural transition for these services to flow into the spa and wellness space.
Alexandra Wilson, from Journey with Death, has spent her career working in local communities in a variety of caring roles and established a social enterprise in 2018, offering death doula training and services. She’s also working on the concept of Earth Hospice. It’s a place of gathering, rest and respite for all, not just the dying and bereaved,” she says. “We believe there should be one in every community.”
Wilson continues: “Many people train with us because they want to volunteer in hospices. It’s a wonderful thing to do, but people dying in a hospice are the least in need of death doulas, if you think about it.
“So I think spa and wellness centres embracing these services is a tremendous idea. The opportunities to connect self-care, time for the self and processing dying, death and loss are endless. A death doula will hold a directory of local complementary therapists to share with clients – so being able to also recommend a local spa that’s welcoming of people who are facing the end of life would be brilliant.
“I think of spas and wellness centres as safe places to relax and often people who are carrying a lot of stress and grief need gentle permission to allow themselves to cry. I also like the idea that family and friends could buy vouchers for a grief-informed spa day as a way to show they care for that person and their carers.”
Wilson adds that spas offering these services could start to attract a new type of clientele and that it might negate the perception of them as a superficial luxury.
“Death doula work is only going to become more in demand and more needed, for sure.”
Wellness facilities that already fully embrace the topic of death and dying, such as Menla – a spiritual resort founded by Bob Thurman, the father of actress Uma Thurman – in the US, see it becoming more widespread and accepted.
Lynn Schauwecker, MD of Menla, says: “We already offer retreats rooted in the Tibetan Buddhist philosophy of the art of dying. In addition to spiritual teachings and contemplative practices, guests can access our Tibetan-inspired Dewa Spa, which offers medi-spa services and holistic treatments designed to support caregivers, those facing terminal illness and individuals navigating grief and loss.”
The centre also recently ran a death doula training retreat, led by Henry Fersko-Weiss, co-founder of the International End of Life Doula Association. Fersko-Weiss is a long-time presenter of Menla’s online conference, The Art of Dying and Living, which attracts people from a wide variety of personal and professional backgrounds.
Shauwecker concludes: “Death is as significant a transition as birth and death doulas offer invaluable support during this sacred passage. As awareness of their role continues to grow, we believe they will become an integral part of end-of-life care.”
photo: Hannah Lovell
"We’re all about holistic support, wellbeing and quality-of-life at the end of life" – Dr Emma Clare
photo: Eva&Alma
"Spas could become spaces to explore life’s most profound transitions in a compassionate, supportive way" – Rachael Carter
photo: Menla
"As awareness of the death doula role continues to grow, it will become an integral part of end-of-life care" – Lynn Schauwecker
photo: MENLA
"Death doula work is only going to become more in demand and more needed" – Alexandra Wilson
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Debate around end-of-life care is becoming more prominent, while medical and social care services are being stretched. With death doulas able to ‘bridge the gap’ between the two, could spas also step up to host services in this space? Julie Cramer reports
Exploring the ‘interconnectedness of life’ at The Dreaming / photo: Elliot Cooper | @cooperexplores
With many countries facing ageing populations, the conversations around end-of-life care are inevitably increasing.
Against this backdrop, the role of the death doula (also known as an end-of-life doula) has gradually become more prominent over the last decade. Just as a birth doula is there to assist mothers to welcome new life, the death doula can be a non-medical advisor, assistant and confidante to those facing a terminal illness, to their caregivers, or elderly people approaching the end.
While death doulas have been around for centuries in different forms in global communities, their modern-day equivalents are now highly trained professionals offering valuable services. Their role is to facilitate a holistic approach to dying, addressing the emotional, spiritual, psychological and often the logistical needs of individuals and their loved ones.
Nurturing environments So this raises the question, could death doula services be offered at spa and wellness centres, whose raison d’être is to nurture and support the wellbeing of guests?
Dr Emma Clare, head of End of Life Doula UK – an association with 360 members – thinks so. “As end-of-life doulas, we’re all about holistic support, wellbeing and quality-of-life at the end of life, so we can absolutely see how this could align with a wellness setting,” she says.
“One of the things which makes our role different is the flexibility of the support we offer. If someone felt most comfortable accessing doula support via such [spa] facilities, we’d be very open to the idea. It would also provide a place for people to discover end-of-life doula support as an option for them at a time when they’re focused on their own wellbeing and self-care, which would be very fitting.”
Rachael Carter, an end-of-life Soul Doula trainer, wellbeing and spiritual life coach, is already working with wellness facilities such as Charlotte Church’s The Dreaming in the UK. She says: “We turn to spas for restoration, healing and deep relaxation, but true wellbeing includes fully living before we die – and how we prepare for and process death is a big part of that.
“Spas could become spaces where guests not only nourish their bodies but also explore life’s most profound transitions in a compassionate, supportive way.
“There’s a growing movement to bring death back into open conversation – shifting it from something hidden to something honoured and embraced. Death doulas are becoming more visible as people seek a more holistic, bespoke person-centred approach to dying.”
According to Carter, spas might embrace services by death and grief experts in a number of ways:
▪︎ Private or group sessions where guests can reflect on life, legacy and end-of-life wishes
▪︎ Workshops exploring what truly matters in life
▪︎ Tailored spa experiences for those at the end of life, offering soothing touch, breathwork or sensory therapies
▪︎ Retreats to offer people at the end of life or those grieving a space to reflect and be nurtured
Training standards Fortunately for spas looking to employ fully-trained and vetted doulas, standards in the sector appear to be both high and comprehensive.
Clare says End of Life Doula UK launched in 2018 as a community to support and continue the learning of professionals already certified by Living Well Dying Well, an organisation offering robust training.
“It can take several years to train as an end-of-life doula,” she explains. “It’s also not a role that you can learn entirely from taught material – we learn by doing and by being with those we support. This means that many of our members are ‘end-of-life doulas in training’ who are undertaking their diploma training while assisting people in their communities, with the support of our mentoring system.
“Spas can come to us as we ensure that all of our practising members are appropriately trained, insured, DBS checked and mentored.”
Carter adds that for operators considering offering these services, clear communication – ensuring guests understand programmes are about support, not therapy or medical advice – is key, along with “thoughtful integration, so that doula services blend in seamlessly without overwhelming guests”.
Evolving role As understanding of death doulas expands – as it appears to be doing – it could increasingly seem like a natural transition for these services to flow into the spa and wellness space.
Alexandra Wilson, from Journey with Death, has spent her career working in local communities in a variety of caring roles and established a social enterprise in 2018, offering death doula training and services. She’s also working on the concept of Earth Hospice. It’s a place of gathering, rest and respite for all, not just the dying and bereaved,” she says. “We believe there should be one in every community.”
Wilson continues: “Many people train with us because they want to volunteer in hospices. It’s a wonderful thing to do, but people dying in a hospice are the least in need of death doulas, if you think about it.
“So I think spa and wellness centres embracing these services is a tremendous idea. The opportunities to connect self-care, time for the self and processing dying, death and loss are endless. A death doula will hold a directory of local complementary therapists to share with clients – so being able to also recommend a local spa that’s welcoming of people who are facing the end of life would be brilliant.
“I think of spas and wellness centres as safe places to relax and often people who are carrying a lot of stress and grief need gentle permission to allow themselves to cry. I also like the idea that family and friends could buy vouchers for a grief-informed spa day as a way to show they care for that person and their carers.”
Wilson adds that spas offering these services could start to attract a new type of clientele and that it might negate the perception of them as a superficial luxury.
“Death doula work is only going to become more in demand and more needed, for sure.”
Wellness facilities that already fully embrace the topic of death and dying, such as Menla – a spiritual resort founded by Bob Thurman, the father of actress Uma Thurman – in the US, see it becoming more widespread and accepted.
Lynn Schauwecker, MD of Menla, says: “We already offer retreats rooted in the Tibetan Buddhist philosophy of the art of dying. In addition to spiritual teachings and contemplative practices, guests can access our Tibetan-inspired Dewa Spa, which offers medi-spa services and holistic treatments designed to support caregivers, those facing terminal illness and individuals navigating grief and loss.”
The centre also recently ran a death doula training retreat, led by Henry Fersko-Weiss, co-founder of the International End of Life Doula Association. Fersko-Weiss is a long-time presenter of Menla’s online conference, The Art of Dying and Living, which attracts people from a wide variety of personal and professional backgrounds.
Shauwecker concludes: “Death is as significant a transition as birth and death doulas offer invaluable support during this sacred passage. As awareness of their role continues to grow, we believe they will become an integral part of end-of-life care.”
photo: Hannah Lovell
"We’re all about holistic support, wellbeing and quality-of-life at the end of life" – Dr Emma Clare
photo: Eva&Alma
"Spas could become spaces to explore life’s most profound transitions in a compassionate, supportive way" – Rachael Carter
photo: Menla
"As awareness of the death doula role continues to grow, it will become an integral part of end-of-life care" – Lynn Schauwecker
photo: MENLA
"Death doula work is only going to become more in demand and more needed" – Alexandra Wilson
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With young adults reshaping our industry, affordable, community-based models are thriving, while traditional spas risk being left behind
Spa people: Novak Djokovic
Game, set, spa. The tennis star is poised to launch a biohacking pod while also entering a multi-year ambassador partnership with Aman
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News report: Double vision
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